Within the past few years I started to shape myself mentally to find out what I really want (at least for now) and what I am willing to do for it. There is no point giving yourself crazy resolutions that will not lead to anything. And what I found is, it is important to know WHY you want those things. Cause if you know, it has a meaning for you.
It was so funny, because I wanted to double check what my last years resolutions were so I can find out how I did. I didn't remember where I wrote them and I just randomly found them on a piece of paper:
Some things were close to the truth, some not that much.
Anyways, I just soooo love to talk too much.
Let me share with you this Years resolutions (and the meaning to them:))
BODY - luckily I knew that I will want to start with going to gym resolution for this year, so when I was at my strongest with the decision, I went to gym and signed up (in the beginning of December). My theory is not giving myself too much pressure now, as I am slowly getting used to the idea of working out and I asked for new backpack, socks for working out and other beneficial things are sorted, so I can focus on the actual thing.
My motivation with GYM is quite good I suppose as I started tis journey with remembering how good I always feel when I loose some steam. I work full-time and try to enjoy my fiancé, family, blog, youtube and let me say if you are completely tired, stressed out and grumpy, that's not how you are going to enjoy life.
Other thing, I want to be strong, healthy (and I love my food - no resolutions into that one luckily :))
And the last motivation for me is my wedding, I am getting married on 24th of May of 2014:))))))))) I am so excited and I want to look my best, starting with doing masks every week to exercising. I know the best way to make your new years resolutions is to be specific and I have my specifics, but I am not going to stress myself about this one, because I am doing this for myself. I would like to go 3 times per week either before or after work, but if I am travelling, tired, ill or for whatever reason not going 3 times but just once in a week, I am doing next week what I can. I want to feel great and strong:)
Just one thing I would like to mention I realised about myself and food is that I have times when I am craving all the sweetest and most unhealthy meals and then I let myself go a little, but there are times that I don't really fancy food that much, I don't really crave anything, I don't mind and that is THE TIME when I give myself as much salads, fruits, healthy meals as possible. Work with your body and both are gonna be HAPPY.
Body that I would like to achieve is Doutzen Kroes one, check the amazingness here.
SOCIAL - (in this category I am putting fiancé, family, friends and experiences with these people)
I definitely want to spend more time with people that are important to me, I want to make the most of out those experiences so I can really cherish those moments.
I will put into my social also my wedding, which will be an amazing important day which I want to enjoy to the fullest, have a lot of laugh, sharing love, dancing, drinking (just a little;)) and making a lot of pictures that will remind me of the "perfection" of the day.
That takes me to the other resolution: making sure that I take pictures. With my family, friends and on great days:)
Last but not least, my fiancé will be 30 this year, so it needs a little celebration, so celebrate it in the way that he will enjoy and love the most and try to make the day great.
SPIRIT & EMOTION - As I read book Magic (Rhonda Byrne) in which you are supposed to write down each day 10 things you are grateful everyday. When I first started reading the book, I was doing it every single day, but sometimes it takes time and I just stopped. I started writing my lists again, trying to do it everyday if possible, but it is really about appreciating what you have and realising that you have much more than you normally think you do.
Next great book that I have just started is I can make you happy from Paul McKenna, who is famous hypnotist helping to loose weight, stop smoking and more. In this book you are getting also hypnosis CD. Love it. Need to properly read it though.
Well, you got an idea. Reading books that lead somewhere to get me better, stronger and more confident person.
AND finish my Vision board. I have started to work on what I really want from life, but it ain't easy. As terrible as it sounds, it needs self-reflection, thinking and realising desires, strengths and dreams.
MY MISSION - With blog I would like to write at least 10 blogposts per month. It is not a crazy amount, but just working on it, but achievable while working full-time.
Youtube - do a video per week (already didn't do first 2 weeks, but hopefully will get to the routine)
Work-wise I don't really rush or stress too much as I would like to attend a Life coach course which I would like to start after my wedding. The course can take minimum 5 months, so I will see how that goes. I always wanted to do something more with my Psychology degree and going more positive direction. After thinking a lot, I think this will be perfect.
NEW EXPERIENCES - So far it looks like we would like to leave UK by the end of this Year and go to a different country (not giving you away yet the which one;)) and because of that we think it is perfect time to have little travels around UK. We have been asking our friends and family about any recommendations, what is worth it, when and why. We might do 1 day or 2-3 days trips, which will be refreshing between work and exciting and the same time.
And I believe that wraps it up. I hope I didn't bore you, but I personally love to know what other people want to work on. I have few beauty resolutions as well, hopefully that post won't be that long and crazy:)
Thank you so much for reading this post and I wish you a lot of strength to achieve all of your New Year's resolutions:)
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